
Learning How to Stay
[Intro — Martin guitar, then full band] [Bubba — Spoken] Darlene, you ready? [Darlene — Spoken, female] Ready. You gonna stand still long enough to sing? [Bubba — Spoken] Well, I’m learning! [Verse 1 — Bubba] Used to leave before the coffee, Had my reasons, had my keys. If a conversation got too close, I’d find somewhere else to be. Now I pull up to the table, Let that screen door swing shut slow. Turns out sitting down with somebody Beats another place to go. [Verse 2 — Darlene, female] You can take a little ribbing, You can hear another side. You can say, “Well, I was wrong there,” And somehow you still survive. You ain’t got to win at supper, You can pass the butter down. Leave a little room for laughing— It’s a good thing having you around. [Chorus — Both] I’m learning how to stay, Put my running shoes away. Keep a promise, pull a chair up, Show up for another day. Let the band kick up a little, Let the front porch floorboards sway. Got my feet beneath the table, And I’m learning how to stay. [Horn turnaround] [Verse 3 — Bubba] Other evening Heather told me Something I’d forgotten twice. I was halfway to explaining, Then I thought I’d better try Just to hear what she was saying, So I let her finish first. [Darlene — Sung, female] Did the roof fall off the kitchen? [Bubba — Sung] No, ma’am. Could’ve been worse! [Chorus — Both] I’m learning how to stay, Put my running shoes away. Keep a promise, pull a chair up, Show up for another day. Let the band kick up a little, Let the front porch floorboards sway. Got my feet beneath the table, And I’m learning how to stay. [Instrumental — Bubba harmonica solo, then Darlene saxophone solo] [Bridge — Darlene, female] Staying takes a little doing, More than saying, “Here I am.” [Bubba] Sometimes it’s washing dishes, Sometimes lending someone a hand. [Darlene, female] Sometimes making that appointment— [Bubba] Sometimes making that phone call— [Both] Taking one good step this morning, We don’t have to know ’em all! [Final Chorus — Both, energetic] I’m learning how to stay, Put my running shoes away. Keep a promise, pull a chair up, Show up for another day. Let the horns blow through the window, Let that Martin lead the way. There’s a whole lot here worth loving, And I’m learning how to stay. [Tag — Call and response] [Bubba] Still got miles of road before me— [Darlene, female] Still got things to learn each day— [Both] But tonight we’ve got some music, And I’m learning how to stay! [Outro — Spoken] [Darlene, female] You can stay and help stack these chairs. [Bubba] I walked right into that one. [Full-band ending]

