Stories with Cheddar 14 - Vellendron - BDSM

All right, so about six years ago, uh, maybe like just end of COVID, I left my first wife. So it's been about a year by myself. Uh, in that time, met somebody who's now my ex. Uh, I've always been interested in like BDSM and stuff. So I was like, okay, cool, let's explore this a little bit. She was totally into that shit, always had been in relationships like that, you know, and encouraged me to, you know, look into it and stuff. So I said, all right, cool. So I still have all of the implements that you would ever use. I have lists for different circumstances, different rules, different, uh, like situations, punishments, all that shit. The traffic light system... The traffic light system is so much easier. And it can be broken down into, uh, hand signals too, which I still use. So I have all this shit. And we got to the point where it was like, okay, how far can we push it? Uh, you ever use one of those TENS units? [Male Voice 2]: Yes. [Male Voice 1]: Use it in a sexual way. See what happens. [Male Voice 2]: I ain't TENSing my balls. [Male Voice 1]: Yeah, that one hurts. Anyway... [Male Voice 2]: I'm so glad you didn't say a cattle prod. [Male Voice 1]: No, but that was discussed. [Male Voice 2]: Good god. [Male Voice 1]: Now, the whole point of this was to say, in a healthy BDSM relationship, there is a time where you have a rating system for about everything that you do. And you gauge it and you record it. Okay, this is like ten percent power, this is fifty, this is however high you go. And you record that so you know exactly how hard you can go and how much is pushing the limit, so you don't get in those situations where it's like, "Oh yeah, hit me as hard as you can." No you don't. No we're not, we're not doing that. Mm-mm. And then on top of that, there's always a consent form that I have that is both of our signatures, date, time, all that shit, just in case, so it is documented that it was consented to. So there's a fun fact about me.