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Strong Doesn't Mean Stone

V6

STRONG DOESN’T MEAN STONE [Intro – quiet piano, close vocal] Everybody sees the way I stand. Nobody asks what it cost me to stop falling. [Verse 1] I learned to smile through heavy days, To keep my breaking out of sight. I carried storms behind my eyes And told the world that I was fine. I held my breath through every loss, Kept both feet planted on the ground. They called me strong because I stayed. They never heard my breaking sound. [Pre-Chorus] I survived because I had to. That doesn't mean it didn't hurt. I kept everybody else from falling While disappearing from my world. [Chorus] Strong doesn't mean stone. I still feel every cut. I still need arms around me When the road becomes too much. Strong doesn't mean careless. It doesn't mean I can't be torn. It means I kept on living Through the nights I couldn't mourn. So if you say you love me, Love the heart beneath these bones. Hold me like I matter. Strong doesn't mean stone. [Verse 2] I wore responsibility Like it was stitched into my skin. Carried guilt that wasn't mine And called that weight forgiving them. I made excuses for their choices. I found reasons for their lies. I kept protecting everybody Who never cared if I survived. I gave compassion without boundaries, Let forgiveness hide the cost. I was saving everybody else While I was the one getting lost. [Pre-Chorus] But I don't carry grown men's damage. I don't make their wrongs make sense. Understanding why they hurt me Doesn't mean they get the chance again. [Chorus] Strong doesn't mean stone. I still feel every cut. I still need arms around me When the road becomes too much. Strong doesn't mean careless. It doesn't mean I can't be torn. It means I kept on living Through the nights I couldn't mourn. So if you say you love me, Love the heart beneath these bones. Hold me like I matter. Strong doesn't mean stone. [Rap Break – low, controlled, cutting] Let me tell the truth now. I carried blame that wasn't mine. Carried broken people past the finish line. Carried their secrets, carried their shame, Carried the weight while they walked away unchanged. That's done. I ain't your shelter while you set me on fire. I ain't calling it love just because I survived it. Not your mother, not your cure, Not the woman you destroy then come crawling back to When you need something pure. I want truth without having to dig. Love without begging for the bare minimum. I want peace at my table. I want trust in my bed. I want somebody who protects what he claims in my head. My strength ain't permission to treat me like hell. Just because I can carry it don't mean I will. So bring something honest or leave me alone. I may be strong—but I ain't made of stone. [Bridge – stripped, intimate] Sometimes I still hear the words: “Don't get lost.” I used to think being lost meant not knowing where to go. Now I know I was lost every time I chose somebody else And abandoned myself. I was lost every time I swallowed the truth to keep somebody near. I was lost every time I called pain love Because love was what I needed it to be. But I can hear myself now. And I am coming home. [Final Chorus – full power] Strong doesn't mean stone. I don't have to hide the scars. I can need somebody's tenderness And still know who I am. Strong doesn't mean lonely. It doesn't mean I walk alone. It means I know what love should be And I won't accept what's wrong. If you say you really love me, Bring me truth that can be shown. See the woman underneath it. Strong doesn't mean stone. [Final Refrain – choir behind lead] I put down the blame. I put down the shame. I put down the lies that were never mine to name. I put down the weight. I open my hands. I won't carry broken love just to prove how strong I am. Strong doesn't mean silent. Strong doesn't mean alone. Strong doesn't mean you get to hurt me Just because I always come back whole. [Outro – piano and exposed vocal] Be honest with me. Be gentle with what I show you. Don't admire my strength and ignore my heart. I survived without being held. But I don't want to spend the rest of my life proving that I can. Strong doesn't mean stone. And I deserve a love that knows the difference.