
COME BACK TO NOW: Grounding Song
Come back to now. Come back to this room. You don’t have to solve the past tonight. You don’t have to defend yourself anymore. Right now, just stay here. [Verse 1] If this were someone that I loved, Shaking underneath this weight, I wouldn’t tell her, “Think it through,” I wouldn’t make her litigate Every word and every memory, Every reason, every scar. I’d sit beside her quietly And tell her where we are. You’re here. You’re breathing. Feel the ground beneath your feet. There is nothing you must answer. There is no one you must please. [Pre-Chorus] You don’t have to prove what happened. You don’t have to make it right. You don’t have to win an argument That only lives inside your mind tonight. [Chorus] Come back, come back, come back to now. Put your hand upon your heart. The past can knock against the door, But you don’t have to let it start. Breathe in slow. Breathe out long. You are here, and you belong. Not back there. Not in then. Here you are. Come home again. Come back, come back, come back to now. Nothing needs deciding now. One breath, one room, one moment— That is all you’re carrying now. [Verse 2] If my friend said, “Maybe I deserved it. Maybe somehow I was wrong. Maybe if I’d just been better, He would never have done what he’d done.” I would take her hands and tell her, “No. Put down that awful blame. Another person’s choices Do not get to bear your name.” You were allowed to have boundaries. You were allowed to say no. You were allowed to need kindness. You were allowed to let go. You were allowed to be imperfect. You were allowed to disagree. You never had to earn the right To be treated with dignity. [Chorus] Come back, come back, come back to now. Put your hand upon your heart. The past can knock against the door, But you don’t have to let it start. Breathe in slow. Breathe out long. You are here, and you belong. Not back there. Not in then. Here you are. Come home again. [Verse 3] Your mind keeps opening old files, Searching for the missing piece: “If I understand it perfectly, Maybe finally I’ll have peace.” But you don’t need one more answer. You don’t need one more replay. Understanding every detail Will not change yesterday. So when your mind says, Go back. Go back. There’s something that you missed. Tell it gently, No, sweetheart. There’s nothing there to fix. [Bridge — slow and repetitive] I do not have to solve it. I do not have to know. I do not have to answer. I am allowed to let it go. I do not have to prove it. I do not have to fight. I do not need his understanding To know what wasn’t right. I can feel my feet beneath me. I can feel the chair, the floor. I can hear the sounds around me. I am not back there anymore. Look around. Name five things that you see. Four things you can touch. Three things you can hear. Two things you can smell. One slow breath— And stay right here. [Build] This is a memory. This is not happening now. This is a memory. This is not happening now. My body learned to sound the alarm. Thank you, body. You can stand down. I hear you. I believe you. But we are here now. We are here now. [Final Chorus] Come back, come back, come back to now. Feel the earth beneath your feet. You don’t have to fight yesterday For tomorrow to be free. Breathe in slow. Breathe out long. Let the moment carry on. Not back there. Not in then. Here you are. Come home again. And if the memory comes tomorrow, We’ll come back tomorrow too. A thousand times, if that’s what it takes, I will keep returning you— To this breath. To this room. To the sunlight through the window. To the ordinary afternoon. To the life that’s happening now. [Outro — almost whispered] Nothing to prove. Nothing to solve. Nothing to answer right now. Breathe in. Breathe out. The past is not an emergency. Breathe in. Breathe out. The past is not an emergency. You can put it down for now. You can put it down. Come back to now. Come back to now. Come home.

