As a big bear I violated her space and hurt her. First, I talk to friends and take on new disciplines then I turn to my Master and lay down before Him. Then I commune with Him and call the one I’ve wounded. Oh, what wound, oh what pain, oh what remorse. This big bear of a man will never again hurt this beautiful woman in this way. Like my own mother, some women need to be treated with the utmost sensitivity so that their gifts of devotion, love and service can flower to the greatest extent. I will only give her the peace, love, joy and tranquility that she needs from now on. There are incidents that truly change the heart. This is one. This is one. This is one.