[Verse 1] You called me up at midnight Trembling through the phone I just wanted to support you Make sure you weren’t alone I held your words like glass Every shard inside my hands I just wanted to be the shoulder You could cry on, where you stand [Pre-Chorus] I kept your secrets Locked in my chest Swore to protect you Did my best But then you turned And cut me down Like I ain’t fighting Just to stand my ground [Chorus] How dare you judge me? (hey!) Single mom with a heavy heart Of course I gotta lean on my family That’s the only thing holding me up in the dark I don’t have a man who will stand for me Or show up for my little one All these boys out here don’t know what it means To raise the child of some other man’s son It’s not my fault It’s not my fault (no) How dare you judge me? [Verse 2] You sit there in your comfort Acting like you understand Throwing shadows at my choices From a life you never had Grocery bags and late rent Tiny shoes on the floor Every day’s another mountain Another knock at the door [Pre-Chorus] I kept your secrets You kept your pride Smiling to my face While you cut me inside You talk about “strength” Like it’s easy to say But you never walked In my tired days [Chorus] How dare you judge me? (oh) Single mom with a heavy heart Of course I gotta lean on my family That’s the only thing holding me up in the dark I don’t have a man who will stand for me Or show up for my little one All these boys out here don’t know what it means To raise the child of some other man’s son It’s not my fault It’s not my fault How dare you judge me? [Bridge] You see my ringless hand You think you know my story You never saw the nights I bled for his glory You see my tired eyes You call it weakness, too But I am twice the spine Of the man who walked from you [Chorus] How dare you judge me? (yeah) Single mom with a heavy heart Of course I gotta lean on my family That’s the only thing holding me up in the dark I don’t have a man who will stand for me Or show up for my little one All these boys out here don’t know what it means To raise the child of some other man’s son It’s not my fault It’s not my fault How dare you judge me?