___________ [Verse 1] I waited to answer you because I learned a long time ago That love looks different from one person to another. People say treat people how you want to be treated, but people don't. They want you to treat them way better Than they treat you. In order to love someone right, you have to love yourself. And sometimes loving someone is cutting them off, So peace can be found. I also learned that loving yourself is picking the right people to be around you... I also learned that it's not worth it to be loved by people, That don't know who you are. [Pre-Chorus] You have to love the person you chose beyond your comfort level, And beyond your comprehension of love, and that's what love is. To me, love is not letting my emotions control me, even if I get angry, not to let it control me to the point where I'm out of control... To me, love is learning to listen to the person you picked to love above all Because that's what you signed up for, I learned to love even when I'm being rejected by you. [Chorus] I'm learning all the things I need to do to love you, but are you.? I am learning that doing the things, That makes me a good man. A good provider means nothing, If you are not doing the things needed to show love, And I've tried so hard, and I've tried so many times, No one said love was easy, but I didn't know it would be this hard. This is a challenge, We need balance. [Verse 2] My mantra that I follow when it gets hard is to say my piece. I stay mad 5 mins, and after that, I move on. I try to talk to GOD and let him lead me through. Then I go and try to live my life. There aren't many times I get angry or upset about, Cause I don't argue with people I don't care about, Cause I learned how to say what I feel, And whether or not they accept how I feel is not my business, Because I had my say, I am still learning how to love. And not match your energy, Because I want to SOOOOOOO BAD...!!!! [Bridge] I tried to tell you that we were falling apart. But you took everything I said and turned it on me. (Turned it on me) How do I get through to you that I'm still learning how to love, And I'm willing to learn to love you, Don't look at me, (don't look at me) Listen to my heart, So you see I'm still willing to learn your love language. [Chorus] I'm learning all the things I need to do to love you, but are you.? (Baby, are You.?) I am learning that doing the things, That makes me a good man. (To Be A Good Man, Now) A good provider means nothing, If you are not doing the things needed to show love, And I've tried so hard, and I've tried so many times, No one said love was easy, but I didn't know it would be this hard. This is a challenge, We need balance. _______________ _______________ We Need Balance.! ______________ No one said love was easy, but I didn't know it would be this hard. This is a challenge, We need balance. Lyrics by: Juan "Da Producer" Johnson Performed by: Roger & the Rabbits Music by: Suno